Tag Archives: Relationships

The Oddity of Dreams

Last week I had a dream I still don’t know how to interpret. My dreams are often prophetic or informative. This felt different in a way I had not experienced. When my father died over a year ago, I spent … Continue reading

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Deepish Thoughts

I just need to talk today.  So I’m going to talk. I’m having a hard time squaring a few things about me, my sexuality, my kink.  I’m finding that my view of slavery and of marriage simply does not square … Continue reading

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This is not a fire drill. This is real life.

Crap. Welcome to Friday. I have a splitting headache and I mean that literally and punnilly. For a little while I thought I had it all together. Having all the baskets in the same egg and everyone is one and … Continue reading

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Musings

I woke up this morning an’ popped out of bed feeling okay about myself and things. Expressing myself helps. Despite what we are, I found something funny. I learned what kind of pains are good and what kind of pains … Continue reading

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Thinking Thoughts

I didn’t want to change him. I knew men don’t change. They are who they are. Either you accept them flaws and all or you don’t. It’s the don’t part that hurts the heart first. Then I made my own … Continue reading

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I finely feel safe.

It’s weird. I feel safe. After all this time, I’ve got tears of joy running down my face and I feel happy like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I finally feel safe. I hate doing relationship autopsies but … Continue reading

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Oh really? Today is what?

It’s quite funny, today is International Woman’s day and I haven’t the slightest bit of interest in it. Never heard of it before and I’m sure it’s going to be used as some bellwether for a political movement or some … Continue reading

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